Powerful Online Counselling Therapy for Kids Suffering Bullying in School or face to face!
What is bullying? Well, it is when someone uses aggression against us. This could be from using threatening words, or acts of violence or constant name calling. They also treat us less favourably in school. There is usually a deliberate and constant pattern of behaviour where we are singled out. We are treated differently than the rest of the kids in the playground or in class.
Bullying does affect our state of mind and welling being and of course in the long run… ruin our confidence. The reason for this is because… we blame ourselves thinking that it is something that we have done wrong!
When we begin blaming ourselves; it leads to an unhealthy self criticism and it begins to affect our judgements, when we carry out simple every day tasks. We begin to question whether we are are competent or simply not popular.
So suffering from being bullying eventually will begin to chip away at our confidence until we stop believing n ourselves while our confidence suffers as a result.
But this is how bullies wear their victims down. They behave as cold callous predators unfeeling, with a destructive agenda. Bullies will pile on the pressure because they get a tremendous amount of satisfaction breaking down their victims, I know! I have been a victim of bullying for many years not during my childhood, but when I became an adult. And this went on for many years!
Bullying is a serious problem today, and social media has not helped in anyway. I have helped many students whom have been victims of bullying. We are bullied for so many different reasons, but the popular excuse is always because, we don’t fit in. I did not fit in because I was too creative and not seen as manly enough!
However, not fitting in, whether it be school, or in the work place, can make us vulnerable to this disease.
Good News!
Ellen, a 12 year old girl, whom I used as a case study in my book, had severe speech dyspraxia. She had no confidence, and would walk around with her head to the ground, just acting as though she was everyone’s door mat. Her speech impediment made her a victim to both physical and psychological bullying. Her life was made hell by the kids at her school.
Her parents were in tears, on seeing their daughter in this terrible state. I booked her to attend one of my motivational sessions. After completing the intense therapy, her parents were begging me not to give Ellen anymore confidence! She was becoming a real diva! By the way, the bullies became her friends!
How Does This Powerful Positive Therapy Work?
- I use metaphor, and symbols with background music.
- Reprogramming how your child feel about themselves.
- Challenging Self Negative perception.
- Powerful Confidence Building a prevention strategy.
- By undoing the psychological harm
- Changing your attitude and how you see yourself
- I can also offer this service this Online Zoom or Skype etc…
- Your child will also be given a MP3 Audio customise for their need where they can listen to it as often as they wish!
You will witness dramatic changes in your child’s life within weeks. Sometimes it can be instant results! Contact me with confidence.
apositivelifestyle@yahoo.com or 07507486532 If Outside UK please use the ext code
Prices: £30 forty minutes
£40 One Hr intensive session